There is a gulf between a personal preference and a hard and fast rule when it comes to whom you date/marry. A personal preference is flexible enough to allow you to give a person a chance as a total package. A hard and fast rule means no matter who the person is as a total…
Some folks are defensive about the concept of privilege. As soon as someone tells them they have privilege in a certain area they list all the ways in which they are behind the eight ball as proof they are not privileged. Privilege is not universal. You can have privilege in one area and lack it…
