Category: Blog Posts


  • Etymology of the Word ‘Picnic’

    Some people believe the word ‘picnic’ came from white Americans lynching African Americans and say the word is shorthand for “pick-a-nigger”. The truth is picnic is derived from the 17th-century French word ‘picque-nique’, which literally means “each pick a bit”. It referred to a fashionable pot-luck which may or may not have happened outdoors and…

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  • It’s the Way You Make Them Feel

    On Wednesday I searched YouTube for audio or video of Apostle Arturo Skinner, the pastor of the megachurch family I was born into. He died a month after my sixth birthday, so my memories of him are vague at best. But I remember feeling seen and loved very much by him. I have memories of…

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  • Smart Love: A Throwback Thursday Blog Post from 1996

    In 1995 I taught myself HTML and how to use the web. By 1996 I was blogging on my own website. Flashback to one of my earliest posts.

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  • We Are Not Our Own Biggest Problem

    Would the Black community in America would be further along financially, if the wealthiest of us gave back more? It isn’t that simple.

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  • Living with Anxiety

    I am afraid. People looking at my life probably have no idea I live with anxiety and have for as long as I can remember. In fact, I didn’t realize my feelings are anxiety until a year or two ago. I had always been told I think/worry too much and should “just stop”. Just like…

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