• Alternate Universes

    I have always been a daydreamer. At times daydreams are what got me through situations which were out of my control without losing my sanity. Other times they were an enjoyable way to pass the time or put myself to sleep. Throughout my life I have developed a number of alternate universes based on a…

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  • It’s the Way You Make Them Feel

    On Wednesday I searched YouTube for audio or video of Apostle Arturo Skinner, the pastor of the megachurch family I was born into. He died a month after my sixth birthday, so my memories of him are vague at best. But I remember feeling seen and loved very much by him. I have memories of…

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  • SUSBS Superstar: Kronda Adair

    Today, 31 May, is Web Designers day! It is also the kickoff of the Show Up, See, Be Seen interview series. Each month(-ish) you will have the chance to meet a woman who embodies the spirit of SUSBS. I call them SUSBS Superstars. Our first SUSBS Superstar is Kronda Adair, a woman who reinvented her…

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  • I still give a fuck. I’m just less likely to let that stop me.

    BE SEEN. I care what people think, but I don’t let that stop me.

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  • New Beginnings

    Easter/Passover/Resurrection is about new beginnings, and one of our sisters needs advice on how to start anew.

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